I specifically made it a point not to make this a brag list of books I've read. I wanted to make sure I listed only the resources that have had the greatest impact on my life.
Some of these I purchased, some I borrowed from the Calgary library. All of them can be found and borrowed for free at the library of most major cities.
The Deepest Well: Healing the Long-term Effects of Childhood Adversity
by Nadine Burke Harris
Running on Empty: Overcome your Childhood Emotional Neglect by Jonice Webb
CPSTD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker
Free Audiobook (7+ hours): Into the Magic Shop: A Neurosurgeon's Quest to Discover the Mysteries of the Brain and the Secrets of the Heart By James R. Doty MD
Free Audiobook (3+ hours): The 6 Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Brandon
The Enlightened Marriage by Jed Diamond
The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships by Neil Strauss
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love by Amir Levine
Cupid's Poisoned Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships
of people who suffer from personality disorders
J.A.D.E: Do not justify, argue, defend or explain
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